I get turned on when flirting involves slightly dirty words and phrases, the kind that ignite the spark and motivate me to be bolder. I love good oral sex, when your tongue stimulates my clitoris to its peak.
Turn offs:
I don't like people who try to humiliate me, nor do I like being yelled at or intimidated in a rude way, including being disrespectful. This should be our safe space, a good place for both of us.